He makes my blood curdle

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Date Joined Jun 2008
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   Posted 6/28/2008 12:17 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi all
    Im really frustrated right now.  My boyfriend left me because i have a chronic illness.  He told me it intimidated him and that if we ever got married we could never have kids cause i couldnt eat.  So then he told me hes not ready to be in a committed relationship right now.  Ok fine.  Whatever.  So then he shows up at church with a friend of mine and hes been calling her everyday since.  I was so mad tonight it just made my blood curdle.  Around me when she isnt there he acts all like he likes me and then when shes around its like i dont exist.  I told my friend and warned her about him last week, but this week they both showed up together.  I guess she just doesnt get it.  I feel so used.  No one deserves to be treated like a piece of meat.  Everytime I see him I seriously get sick.  I want to throw up.  Sorry I just had to went I cant believe people act like this.

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   Posted 6/28/2008 4:18 AM (GMT -6)   

Hi Lisa,

Perhaps he has done you a favour. If he ran away so quickly at the sight of chronic illness, is he really what you are looking for in a boyfriend? Perhaps just have a little word with your friend to let her/him know what kind of person he is. Please dont let this eat you up inside though.


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   Posted 6/28/2008 6:24 AM (GMT -6)   

Darren is right..this creep did you a favor.
You deserve to have a man that is willing to stand by your side when the chips are down.

If the situation was reversed you would have stood by him..

Let him go,and if she won't listen to you,then when he runs off on her too you will have your satisfaction then.

Life is too short to let someone treat us like that.

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