Have you mentioned to your older son how you feel? Maybe you could sit down and let him know that this is a two way street here. You care about
his needs and wish that he cared about
yours. It is only fair, he is an adult. Maybe he doesn't realize he is being that selfish. And he probably doesn't mean it because he doesn't realize how you feel. Or have you mentioned it to him?
I am glad that your other son is more compassionate. You deserve that, too bad he isn't closer. I take it he is the one getting married. Has that happened yet?
I hope that your day gets better Aurora.
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