You are such a wonderful caring person. If you feel it will work out in the end, give her time. I can see how much you love her and I am sure once she gets this under control that the two of you will be together. It is just that her self esteem is so low right now that she doesn't feel she is worth it. But as long as she keeps trying, she is.
Continue to be patient with her. If she doesn't want to move in together yet, I guess that she has her reasons. Maybe she doesn't want you to see her when she is at her lowest, though you probably already have.
But when you are depressed, you feel like such a burden to others and you feel you are not worth the trouble. But we, and you, know that isn't true. You see the good in her that she doesn't see.
I hope that we are helping you to cope, but I wonder if it would be good for you to seek counseling to help you through all of this that you are going through. It can't be easy for you. I see that you are really sticking by her and she is lucky for that. Keep up the good work.
Keep posting and let us know what is going on with your situation. Again, you are a wonderful, compassionate and strong person to stick this out. And I hope that she starts feeling better soon. For both your sake.
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