Posted 8/3/2008 5:09 PM (GMT -6)
As much as I hate to say it, it sounds like she wants some space. And I think it only fair that you give it to her. Let her work this out and if the two of you are meant to be together, you will.
If you keep pushing, she will start backing off. I know it is hard, but you must give her some room to breathe. She is asking for you to help her that way.
She just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Just because she needs some space doesn't mean that she doesn't care about you. She just wants to get her head straight. Is she going to any counseling? I think that would be good for her right now.