If I were you, I would still keep the owners informed as to what is going on, maybe you could talk to her more, maybe he is tiring of it like you said. He might not be able to handle it anymore. But I think that he should still listen. Being he owns the place.
I can't understand why the management co. wouldn't want you to correspond with the owners. But I would stick with what you are doing and continue. Maybe if you can't visit as much as you would like, you could converse by phone. Just to let them know what is going on, whether they want to know or not. I can understand your loyalties to them. I think that you are doing a marvelous job and I think you should continue to do as you see fit.
I hope that this helps some,
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