I think that being that he asked you to come along means a lot. He wants you to share his fun time. There is nothing wrong with going to play ball. I thinkt that you should go with him. I am sure that he is thankful for everything that you have done for him. This is actually a good sign, he is going out and doing something. Try to forget the rough time that you two have been through with him secluding himself and live in the moment. You aren't doing anything wrong. I think he just caught you off gaurd. You weren't expecting him to get up and want to go out and do something. Be happy for him, go along and share the fun. I think that he loves you a lot and wants you to see him happy.
Don't let him cause you to feel bad, you couldn't have possibly ruined his whole day. He just got flustered and didn't know what else to say. His problems and moods are his and his alone. So try to make the best of it and go out with him and have a good time.
I know that it is difficult for you watching the highs and lows. But be patient, hopefully this will even out.
You are doing good and keep it up. You can do this, Iknow that you can.
Keep posting, we are here for you.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies