How do you figure that you would have to pay alimony if you split up? If you have the kids you should get child support from him. You can't help it that he isn't well. He would have to find work. Wouldn't he have to sue you anyway to get alimony? Or do I not know what I am talking about
? I am not up on the law actually. But I cannot see you owing him any money as long as you have the children. Unless he is that devious to persue it.
I can see where you would think that he might be sabotashing the interviews. I hope that he isn't. But it kind of looks that way. I wish I had a solution for you. But I don't. All I can say is to take it one day at a time and know that you are doing that very best that you can. I had posted in another thread to you that I was happy that things were going well. I had thought that it sounded like they were then, it does sound like they are better than they once were.
I hope that he finds a job and that things work out for you. You have tried so hard for such a long time. You deserve a break.
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