Hi there and Welcome to HealingWell,
Firstly I wanted to say what a great person you must be, being the caregiver for your partners parents for 7 years even though it has left you injured. Im not an expert in relationships or US housing as I am a 23 yr old single male from the UK but what I would say is be honest with your partner. I think (women especially) appreciate honesty as that way, everyone knows where they stand.
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