Oh my goodness I just went through this myself so I feel like I have to offer you my opinion and advice! Actually, I must be going through some kind of bad karma, because there have been so many times I thought I was starting a relationship with a guy, when really, he just wanted to make out! Not to offend any men on this forum, but from my perspective, girls are more emotional about
physical intimacy. We think a kiss means "I love you," or at least "I want to date you." But some guys just view the "relationship" as a friends with benefits/no strings attached situation. If this guy isn't giving you the attention you deserve, and causing you this much stress, I would end things immediately and start accepting those dates from guys who are looking for a possible relationship! You deserve to be treated with love and respect. Don't settle for anything less.
Just to make sure I keep all my male friends on this forum...
I do realize some girls play games too and that not all men take advantage of girls this way. But sometimes, I think guys think girls are on the same page about
what a relationship is or isn't because there's a huge lack of communication about
what the other person is or isn't looking for.