Hi Juliaa, My mum died of cancer just under 6 years ago, (I was 12 at the time) Nobody ever wants to forget anything about
someone close to them, in this case, you with your sister, Confusedli with her Dad and me with my mum. For the last 6 years, I have held all my grief and anger and emotions inside, hiding them away from myself and others (making them believe that I was coping) But now 6 years down the line, I can't cope and have broken down completely because of it! I believe that as long as they are in our hearts and minds, we may loose them physically, but their memories live on. about
your daughter getting married, go out there, enjoy her special day with her, and think of how proud your sister would be of her speical little neice, all grown up and starting a life and family of her own. Being
open and talking to your family and friends, or even a counciler about
your feeling, is a way to make you feel better in yourself. Grieving with the loss of someone is hard, but it's even harder if you grieve alone! Look at pictures and videos, and dont be afraid to have a cry because there is nothing to be ashamed of with crying. Take care of everyone close to you and live life to the full as you never know whats around the corner. My thoughts are with you x x
About Me: My mum died of cancer when I was 12, Don't get on with Dad and Sister, Held all my emotions, grief and feelings in for 6 years and now need to explode because I can't cope any longer!
The more you believe, the stonger your beliefs!
Live your life to the full, as you never know what is around the corner!