First of all, welcome to the depression forum. I think that you will find there are a lot of caring and compassionate members here, now you are a part of our family. This means that we are here for you.
Maybe your friend isn't gay, but does she really have to move out? Does she have a place to go? You could still be roomates. I guess that decision is totally up to her.
Please dont' blame yourself for her deperssion. We own that ourselves. You can't make another person deperssed, that is within themselves. So give yourself a break there and don't feel guilty about
it. Chances are she was already depressed. It sounds like she doesn't know her self identity. That is something that she will have to discover on her own. You can direct her, but you can't fix her.
Are you going to counseling of any sort? I highly recommend that. You could use some support right now.
I hope that things work out for you. You sound like a very nice person. Keep posting and let us know how things are working out for you.
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