Hi Snowflake, come to MN and you will see lots of snow, sometimes it is so beautiful clinging to the trees, and some time it is a pain in the tush to drive in.
My sister left on Monday to go home to North Dakota for our Thanksgiving. She has been here at the hospital or at the Cancer Hope Lodge for 104 days. I told her when they called and asked if she could come and could we arrange things I was not expecting her to stay for such a long visit. LOL. She has one more round of Chemo. She had one on Saturday and then we finally got her out of hospital and took her to a nice dinner. My daughter and I bought her a very beautiful wig fitted to her and she cried.
She did not have enough money to buy it now and I did not want her to go home bald. She kept saying she feels so normal with hair.
Surgery in being planned for January if things go on schedule. It may be an open and shut case but at least we will know. I am praying for the miracle that she will be given some good extra years.
I am sorry your family is so selfish. If my sister did not have me and her super daughter with her she would be alone here too. She has never spent a night alone without one of us right next to her bed. AT the hospital we have slept on just about everything, mattress on the floor, relciner chairs........
She is so afraid to be alone.
Know I am thinking of you and I am so sorry for the pain you endure.