In love, but things got way messed up

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Date Joined Dec 2008
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   Posted 12/21/2008 11:20 PM (GMT -6)   
I was dating this guy a few months ago. We totally were into each other and everyone could see it. We sort of went through this period where we didn't talk much. Well, we didn't talk at all. There wasnt a reason for us to ignore each other, but I tried to reach out and see what was wrong but he didn't budge.
I was left depressed, angry, and answer-less. Now we started talking again, but things are definetly not the same nor will they ever be how they used to be. I feel used. I feel like theres something wrong with me because I was kicked to the side without an explanation why.
I don't know how to pound it in this guys head how much I like him still but Im afraid he's gonna act all macho again and pretend like he doesn't know what I'm talking about, because he still ignores the fact that we were ignoring each other for such a long time.

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   Posted 12/21/2008 11:37 PM (GMT -6)   
It doesn't sound like this guy is as open as you are. If you stay with him, be prepared for this to continue. It being able to have an open relationship where both of you are honest about laying it on the line where your feelings are concerned, I don't think that you will get that from this guy. You will forever be holding things inside because he doesn't want to talk about it. So this is in your hands, you have a decision to make.

I hope that he comes around and starts talking before you decide what you want.

Hugs, Karen
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