My husband was recently diagnosed with depression. He is not happy with any aspect of his life - work, home, friends etc. We have a 2 week old baby - when I told him that I was pregnant (which was planned) it's like a switch went off. Suddenly, he became distant & sad. He started saying that he was unhappy with his life and finally said that he was unhappy with his home life. I knew he was unhappy with work, but didn't realize the extent of his unhappiness. I love my daughter dearly and can't imagine life without her - but I had to ask him, if you were so unhappy, why did we decide to have a baby? He said that he didn't realize how unhappy he was. He and his therapist agree that the problem is not chemical and that changes need to be made. He began talking about divorce - we've been together 15 years, I can't believe he wants to end it. But, I told him that I would leave, he said no. When I ask if he wants to leave, he'll say that he doesn't know what he wants, but he doesn't want to hurt me. I've suggested marriage counseling - he agreed, but always has an excuse as to why he can't make the appointments. I've been trying to be supportive, but don't know what else to do. Does anyone have a similar experience - has anyone had a spouse, who has stood by you through depression - any advice?