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Date Joined Jan 2009
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   Posted 1/23/2009 11:59 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey my first post. Ive been married about 2 years now im 22 and my wife is 19. Me and my wife has a 1 and half yr old daughter. I love her more than the world. Things between me and her have been rocky from the start. She talks to her ex boyfriend to much. she went up there to see him in cali after she got out of basic training and AIT with the army. Then i find notes from some dudes who are in germany with her. Her bestfriend told me she cheated on me. All these notes are insinuateing that she had cheated on me. saying "I love your soft lips, and i know you told me not to get attached but i did and i love" crap like that its just now shes over there in iraq. Im over here with our daughter. Ive lost my job, ive been blocking these feelings about her and everything thats happening. The only thing that has kept me going all these months is my litle girl. Right now shes at her grandparents and the depression is hitting me hard.I love my wife and my daughter more than anything. Its just one of those days where im depressed more than normal. I mean since my wife has gone into the army ive spent a whole 1 month and 4 days, and shes been in since june of last year. I guess this is affecting me a lot more than i thought it would, and this post is more than liking making no sense to you guys, sorry. I just had to get this stuff out.

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   Posted 1/24/2009 1:26 AM (GMT -6)   
Sorry I don't have any advice for you. Just wanted to welcome you. I do understand how your situation would be really difficult, though I can't imagine what it must actually be like. All I can do is encourage you to hang in there & keep focused on being healthy so you can enjoy your little girl. I'm sure others will be along before long with more to offer.


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   Posted 1/24/2009 5:23 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Friends,

Hello! Everyone I am Joseph from London newbie of this site.
Hey just somethings i need to get out of Depression.

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   Posted 1/24/2009 10:39 AM (GMT -6)   

Welcome deathswing

I am so sorry about what is happening in your life.  May I suggest see your physician and see about getting into therapy.  You need to deal with your feelings and have a proffessional help you get through this tough time.

It does sound like your wife may be into some problems of her own but most important is you and your child so concentrate on how you can take care of you and do what is best for your daughter.

Again welcome.



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   Posted 1/24/2009 1:12 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Anderblaze and Joseph,

I just wanted to welcome you all to the forum, you too deathswing. You have all come to a good place. I hope that you all stay and share with us.

Best wishes for a wonderful day,

Hugs, Karen
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