I was so excited over Christmas break in Ohio when a really cute guy I met at my 5 year high school reunion (who I never talked to in high school since he was in the popular group) started talking to me. I was thinking maybe I'll hit it off with this guy and maybe he'll treat me better than my ex. I have been single for 4 years. Anyways, he was talking to me and then e-mailed me on facebook the next day asking me out on a date. Unfortunately I could not go because of a family party I had to go to. The following day he had to drive back to where he works which is a 4 hour drive away. We agreed to hang out next time we are both in town or when he comes to visit in Florida (since his family has a condo here in FL and that's where I am now in professional school). So he would call me almost every day. He never got annoyed with me like my ex did. He said that I never bother him and he would always be willing to talk to me. We would text each other alot. He would say the sweetest things to me. He would say how when he comes to FL and things work out, he'd want to be in a relationship with me. He would say I'm cute and adorable. We talked about
alot of things. I told him how I don't fool around with guys I'm not dating. He said he respects that. But we would still talk dirty to each other once in awhile. He is going to be in FL this upcoming weekend for his brother's wedding and he was going to drive 2 hours (since my school is 2 hours from where the wedding is) to come see me some point during the weekend. We were both really excited for it. Well I haven't heard from him since Wednesday night. During Thursday I began to worry about
him thinking something bad happened and I was texting him (maybe a little too much) telling him about
my day, asking about
his, and wondering where he was and telling him I was worried about
him. I also called him twice.. but no answer. Then Friday I texted once, Saturday once and yesterday once asking if he's ok and if he still wants to come visit me. I sent him an e-mail today asking him to please let me know why he's not talking to me out of the blue. I also apologized for sending him alot of texts on Thursday but I said I was jus really worried about
him. I don't know what to do. I hope nothing bad happened to him. Even if he got annoyed by me he should at least tell me he wants space and whether or not he still wants to come see me. I don't know what to do. I feel like it's my fault he's not calling. :-( I know guys don't like clingy girls but if I am used to hearing from a guy I like and they don't call me one day I immediately think of the worst due to my GAD. I'm so sad right now. I thought he was a nice guy. He told me he was a nice guy. Do you think he just wanted sex? I'm so confused and sad.
p.s. My ex is talking to me again after not talking to me for 3 months. I'm scared that the cycle will continue. I wonder if the guy from high school is similar to my ex?
Post Edited (confusedgirl22) : 2/9/2009 5:42:02 PM (GMT-7)