Did you ever think that maybe she avoids being around you because she doesn't want you to see her so down? Sometimes a change of atmosphere helps to feel better. Maybe she can open up to these other people about how she feels because they aren't so close to her like you are. And when we get depressed we tend not to be the most pleasant people to be around and we don't want to hurt others so we avoid them. Plus she is talking to women who may have been in this situation. I am not giving her excuses, but just trying to look at her side of it. She wasn't able to talk to you so she wrote you a note, right? Well I have a hard time talking to my husband about how much I love him. So I make him cards. I know that I should say it more. But for some reason I can't and I can't explain it. But I want him to know so badly. So I do the card thing. I just thought that maybe she is going through the same thing. I don't know, but when you said that you liked the quote, and felt that way, I didn't realize that you had more questions. Feel free to keep asking, we will try to help you in any way that we can to understand depression. Is she going to counseling? I remember that you said she was on medications and we discussed that in four weeks or so she should get the full effect of the meds, but she could start feeling better before that time. I hope so.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies