You did the right thing, you can't possibly continue living under his manipulation. And that is what it was. I am sorry that he broke the windshield in your car. Is it usable or do you have to replace it? If it was worth it, I would make him pay for it, but I think that you are better off going on with your life and leaving him behind.
I can see that you still care about
him and I could see where you would wish for him the best, but I would try to quit worrying about
him, because he has brought this all on himself. It might be best if you break all contact with him. I think he will still try to manipulate your moods and make you feel bad for something that is his problem. So enjoy your new place with your friend and enjoy your life. You deserve to be happy and he was truly taking that away from you. Not to mention his manipulation, he was very jealous too. That meant he was very insecure. You don't need that. You need somebody who trusts you.
Weren't you talking to a guy at work? Or do I have that mixed up with somebody else? Has anything become of that? Let me know if I am wrong.
I hope that you have a wonderful day my friend, keep up the good work and kick that worry to the curb. You are beyond that now.
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