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   Posted 3/10/2009 9:53 PM (GMT -6)   
Hello again...its been awhile since i've posted in regards to my situation...but here's a brief update followed by a question...if you've read my first post on here then you'll know my situation... Since me and my girlfriend parted and i came back to cali we haven't really talked...our last conversation on the phone was the 23rd of feb...wasn't a great conversation nor was it about us...then another brief one on thursday last week...again nothing about us.....she says that her phone cant call out of her area code...understandable...and i haven't tried to call her...i do still think about her alot...mostly on week ends cause i dont work then and im lazy on those days...the night befor she went to see her dr. we had...well she had a small blow out...we had a text chat going on...and one text said that she wanted to but relationship ties with because she felt that it wouldn't work...the next day after her appointment...i get a text saying that she needs to reconsider our situation...words from her doc...its been about 5 weeks now since we really had a i said...we went from always talking about just about nothing in record my question i doing the right thing by not calling...i dont want to bug her...and i dont want to force her to talk...not necessarily about our situation...but about anything...but i also dont want her to think that i've forgotten about her too...

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   Posted 3/10/2009 11:23 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Eddie,

I think that you are doing the right thing by not pushing her. But if she can't call out of her area code, can she reach you? I guess this is one of those situations where you should let her get ahold of you, only if she can though.

I probably am not much help, but I tried.

Hugs, Karen
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