Hello everyone, im not sure how to start. I'm not medicaly diagnosed with depression, to strong headed to go in and get help. always been that way I guess. Not to keen on going to the doc. I'm a heal yourself type I guess. (or try). Guess i'm just lookin for some advice. how do you help someone you love deal and move on, when you can't deal yourself? When you care for someone with all you are and have, and have been there for them from the start, when is it time to say hey where do I fit in? I don't wana loose this person or push them away, it would devistate me towhen they are in a bad way themselfs, scared to be hurt again, I've done everything to prove i'm not going to, when do you know it's time to throw it all out there. I'm not a talk about my problems type of person so please hang in there with me gang. I hope to get better at this. Recantly I just am not me. I'm finacaly strained, emotionaly spent, and feel physicaly drained. I'm trying to be a rock, when i'm hitting rock bottom. When we're toghether, I see it in us both we are us again, happy, why can't I be let in, or whens a good time to push harder to be let in. As I get better at opening up, I will give more info bout the whole picture. just lookng for small pieces, to get a start to this puzzle. please help, I don't wana sink any more. Don't get me wrong being there for ths person is all I wana do, I'm not complaining about it, they are my life, just wana be a part of thiers at some point. when they're a mess themselfs, at what point do you maybe i guess for lack of better words, start trying tough love?
where do I go wrong?