We can't hold others responsible for how we feel. It jsut sounds like she is being casual with the relationship. She said sure whtn you wanted to go out even though your plans gpt changed for the day before. Sure means yes. Maybe she didn't sound too enthusiastic about
it or something, but she still said yes. Maybe she was tired when you talked to her, so she didn't sound too excited about
it. You are reading too much into what other's are thinking. Take things at face value at best.
Other people have moods, things might not be going so well for her that day. So maybe she had other things on her mind. You got to remember not to let other people to be able to control your moods. So look forward to seeing her and take it from there. I am sure she will be happy to see you.
People can be so complexed or so easy to read, it depends on their moods and the depth of their thinking. You can't take it at face value. And you can't read too much into it. So where does that leave you. It leaves you dealing with only your moods. And we are responsible for our own moods. I guess that I am trying to say that not only can we not hold others responsible for our moods, we can't be responsible for theirs either. So we are only responsible for ourselves. Sure you can go out of your way to make somebody feel bad, though I know that you would never do that, but it is up to them whether they are going to let you manipulate their mood. I feel like I am repeating myself. I just want you to know that even though she didn't sound too excited, doesn't mean that she doesn't want to see you. I am sure that she does.
I hope that you have a wonderful day Thend. And I hope that you enjoy your Saturday with your gf.
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