It sounds like you really want to be there for your wife. And I am sure that in time she will see that. Right now, try to take things one day at a time and just keep being there for her.
You have come to a good place where many will have advice for you. Are there any things that you could do together that you use to enjoy? For instance nice long walks together? Or going to see a movie? I hope that things work out for you. Keep posting as we are all here for you.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies