I hope that she doesn't get a job in his area, but there really isn't anything that you can do if she does. You need to let him deal with this, and hope for a good outcome. It does sound like he still has feelings for her. So just step back and see what happens. Try not to let it bother you. You will lose sight of yourself if you continue to worry about
it. He obviously keeps looking at her profile on facebook, that means that he is still interested or he would not be doing that. He says he misses her, and he probably does. So I would let him learn the way that he knows how and just be there for him. There is no reason for you to let it effect your well being. You are a wonderful person and I don't want to see you be sad.
Keep posting Aurora, we are all here for you. We want you to be strong. If this is really effecting you in a negative way, maybe you should talk to a counselor about
it. Are you seeing anybody right now? You could use some extra support through out this topsy turvy ordeal. I know that this isn't easy for you.
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