I had written several posts about
my son and his broken engagement and wedding. He is doing remarkably well. He has signed up for couseling which will be good as he needs a neutral person to help him. He has really come to terms with not marrying this girl. He truly understands that marriage to her would never work and he has accepted that reason. He still talks to me a lot about
the whole relationship and I have told him things I thought about
it and he understands what went wrong. I think he has been very brave and he says he can actually see a glimmer at the end of the tunnel. I am so proud of him. This was his first real love so maybe it was a good experience to go through in order to find the right person. He has many friends and is making a lot of plans for the summer and planning to have a busy schedule. Also keep up with his very busy job! I am doing better too. While I hurt for him deep down inside me I am truly glad he won't be marrying her. She gave nothing to the relationship, it was never 50-50 always 110% on his part. I was very angry for a while that she did this to him. I got rid of my anger by taking all the photos and letters I had from her and put them all through the shredder. That was a good feeling and helped me to alleviate my anger. Now I feel we will go on to bigger and better things for all of us. Thank you all my HW friends for writing me and being so supportive. It may seem inconsequential to some of you but this was a rough time for us and a devastating blow. Again thanks for all the support. I am always here for all of you.