But I still would wait for him to text or call you before I bothered him again.
Talk to that psychiatrist about
it. Or your counselor. Get some perspective on this whole thing. Whether he was a bad guy or a good guy, he still disrespected you. And you didn't deserve that treatment. It is up to you, we can't tell you what to do, we can only give you an objective opinion. We don't think that you should put up with this kind of treatment, and that is that, my dear. You can convince yourself of whichever, but until you get your self esteem built up and stop being codependent and addictive, which you yourself said that you were, you wont be happy in any relationship.
You have to feel secure whether you are with them or talking to them or texting them or not. If you continue to text and call, they will think that you are stalking them.
We care about
you, and want you to get help with this personality disorder. You know that you can. And you know that you can get over this. But it takes work and committment. To start with don't text him until he texts you first. We think you should ignore him, but I know that you wont. So I am trying to help you to not scare him away again. Though you probably should. He isn't good enough for you.
That is all that I can think of for now. You make your own choices. We are here for you.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
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