There are a lot of people that feel that they need others to fullfill their lives. The best way to take care of this is to learn to be happy with yourself. It takes work but it can be done. Put affirmation notes around your house such as "I am a good person" or "I am worthy of love". Possitive notes. The more that you read them to yourself, the more that it sinks in to you and you will begin to feel stronger.
Also the book that Kitt mentioned will help you. I have heard good things about
I hope that you start feeling stronger. Stay with us and we will help you. But a good self help book is a good place to start.
Have you thought about
counseling. That is also a very good place to get your self esteem back.
Best wishes to you, keep posting.
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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies