Have you ever thought of couples therapy? If not, that is something that you might want to try. It seems like he keeps everything bottled up and then blows up when you least expect it. That can be very frustrating to deal with. Just when you think all is running smoothly, the bomb goes off and really catches you off guard. I can sympathise with that.
I think that all relationships have a time when things get harder. I would just take it one day at a time for now and see what happens. Have you talked to a therapist about
this? YOu could use the support right now. And I really wonder if that couple therapy wouldn't help the two of you.
Do you ever ask him if something is bothering him when you suspect it? What does he say? Probably nothing. I use to be that way and after a while you can't hold it in any more. But I wasn't good at expressing myself and that is why I didn't say anything. That could be what he is going through.
Anyway, Keep posting as we are all here for you.
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