You are doing a remarkable job at keeping a healthy perspective and a positive attitude, under very trying and emotional circumstances. You should feel proud of yourself. I know it's very hard for you, loving your girlfriend and wanting to be with her. You're right to leave this up to the higher powers, as you've done all that you can do. Please know that we're here for you and we care very much. Thanks for keeping us posted. I hope you will continue to take good care of yourself.
“If what I say resonates with you, it is merely because we are both branches on the same tree." ~W.B. Yeats