I think if you just let yourself feel sad, that it will go away. Evidently you care about
her because it makes you sad that she is so sad. That is a good thing. You are a sensitive person and there is nothing wrong with that. I guess your son really feels the need to find some closure. Maybe he wants to know that he can stand his ground with her and not be tempted to get back together. It is a good thing that he doesn't take her phone calls. But still is willing to take an email.
I hate to see you suffering so, but that is just you and that is cool. We all seem to have feelings for others and hate to see eachother hurt. I am glad that you have that quality. But try not to be hard on yourself, you are human.
I hope that this helps some. Give yourself permission to be sad, but try not to get too sad about
it. Remember that your son has come a long way with this and is getting stronger still. That is a good thing.
I hope that you feel better soon.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies