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Date Joined Dec 2008
Total Posts : 13
   Posted 6/5/2009 7:11 PM (GMT -7)   
I posted on here a while ago talking about a boy who broke up with me and how sad I was, and you guys all made me feel so much better about myself. Well... once again, a boy has got me down. We've been dating for about 5 months and he always says he'll hang out with me and then says "oh well let's hang out at 8" when he said we'd hang out at 3, and today he did the same thing, only this time he just told me he can't hang out at all, and it makes me feel really really sad. I told him that but he didn't say anything back.. I don't know what to do, and I just need some support right now. could you all help me out? cry
Your head'll collapse when there's nothing in it
And you'll ask yourself
"Where is my mind? "

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Date Joined Mar 2009
Total Posts : 19925
   Posted 6/6/2009 7:59 AM (GMT -7)   
hi star, my mind is not in my head, 3 fold, soul, heart, and life-force (universe).  i don't know what to say, since this has happened b4 can you see any things that have caused this to reaccur? hoping things improve, we are here for you, i am here, take care of you. healings to you. jamie.

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Date Joined Apr 2007
Total Posts : 32602
   Posted 6/6/2009 8:42 AM (GMT -7)   

Hello Star,

I am sorry that this boy has treated you poorly and I know it hurts.  You have my hugs and support.

Remember things will get better as they did before.  Here is the link to your other thread so you can review the posts.  I hope it helps you to reread the advice.

Remember you are a wonderful person and you deserve respect and someone who treats you well.  Do not settle for less.
Gentle Hugs

Kitt, Co-Moderator:
Depression,  & 
*~* *~*
"When you find peace within yourself, you become the kind of person who can live at peace with others."
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New Member

Date Joined Jun 2009
Total Posts : 15
   Posted 6/6/2009 10:34 PM (GMT -7)   
Boys are silly..;)
That being said I know far too well the hurt others can cause. The best thing you can do is love yourself. I know it may seem cheesy and it IS sometimes tough to achieve, but it is helpful in relationships of any kind. Know that you are worth the world and that the right boy will realize that.
all the best,
" a love that moves the sun in heaven and all the stars; this is just a fraction of what is rightfully ours"
Male 32 Depression, Anxiety, Celexa, Klonapin

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Date Joined Mar 2009
Total Posts : 1190
   Posted 6/8/2009 6:50 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Star,

I'm sorry your boyfriend is disrespecting you. You don't deserve that! (((hugs))) Here's my advice, for what it's worth: the next time he makes plans with you and then changes them for a later time at the last minute, I would say, "oh sorry....I won't be available then" and make other plans for yourself. As long as you are available 'whenever', he will continue to take you for granted. Sometimes we have to teach others how to treat us by what we will and will not accept. It's not right for him to keep you hanging on the line like that, assuming that you will just go along with whatever he decides to do. He should have some consideration for YOU and what YOU want to do, when YOU want to do it! Try to fill up some of your spare time with friends or hobbies, and you won't be in a position to be dissed like this. Good luck, and please take good care of're worth it!


"The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes."  ~Marcel Proust



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