Hmm, since u r asking, I think u know best and already know the answer. We don't know the full story.
Is it about being put in the back, while you should take precedence?
I would expect my bf or husband to put me first, for sure. I don't think it's all about what he's done in the past, we don't know, but if this is an indication, it doesn't sound right.
I am a sensitive and a tad needy and if my husband told me he was going to do this and left me hanging and did others befor me, I would be hurt, I know it.
You asked our opinion, and that's my answer.
I had a friend that wouldn't go out of he way to find her husband's favorite aftershave and picked up anything. Personally, that said a lot to me. I would go out of my way to find it.
I'm a christian but this is in the bible and came to mind, "he who is not faithful in a little, will not be faithful in a lot". In other words, if a person doesn't do the little things, what can you expect from that person in the bigger things.
Hope I made sense.
My best to u.
Swallow your pride, you will not die, it's not poison.- Bob Dylan