karen makes wonderful sense. ying and yang. some things go full circle, and by leaving it to the universe it may well come that way, and may not albeit life is about change, thus your relationship will to, so, go and experience, this wonderful. things happen rightly in time. i feel for you, some decisions are tougher than others. time 4 a deep and meaningful i gather. this way your mind can be put more at ease. take care. jamie, ps. yeah talkin' from experience!!