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   Posted 6/30/2009 2:15 AM (GMT -6)   
mad   I am so freekin ticked  off! My boyfriend is being so difficult  mad   
I have 7 brothers and sisters and right now we live in a 3bedroom house.But today we found a 5 bedroom house in which the owner says it is ours with no credit check.He said all that mattered to him was that we had no evictions,which we don't.So basically,he said the house is ours on the 15th. 
I was so excited that we'd finally be able to live in a bigger house and in a better environment for my little brothers and sisters to grow up in.But it is a little further away from my boyfriend than I am now.So when I called him to tell him the good news, or, at least I thought it was good news, he flipped out.He acted like I was trying to get away from him or something.He was so upset.And so was I.He really hurt my feelings bad.
I thought he'd be happy for us, but I guess he was didn't see it the way I did.
I'm not really sure what to do or say to him when I talk to him again,but I am positive that  need some advice. sad

Edit:  Please refrain from using swear words in the forums. I changed your verbiage.


Post Edited By Moderator (stkitt) : 6/30/2009 7:35:27 AM (GMT-6)

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   Posted 6/30/2009 3:11 AM (GMT -6)   
hey cedabug, your bf is acting a tad juvenile in my book. what you are doing for your family is very admirable. family is so important. well done, and good 4 you on that!! tell him to grow up. jamie.

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   Posted 6/30/2009 9:43 AM (GMT -6)   
I agree with Jamie,

Your boyfriend is imature. I hope he grows up soon. Your family is doing what is best for them in this situation. So don't feel badly about it. He will get over it. You need more room for the little ones.

Best wishes to you...

Keep your chin up...

Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 6/30/2009 4:12 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Cedabug,

This move is for the benefit of your family, and your boyfriend should be happy for all of you. He is being selfish and immature by taking this attitude. This isn't even about him. It's about you, and your brothers and sisters. Period. He needs to get over himself and feel some empathy.

Hang in there. He'll get over this, and hopefully apologize to you (he'd better!). In the meantime, enjoy this exciting news, and get packing! I'm thrilled for all of you. (((hugs)))
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   Posted 7/1/2009 6:17 AM (GMT -6)   
i too hope apologizes, regardless of where u stand together u deserve one. happy moves, enjoy the space of a bigger home!! proud of ya. jamie. smilewinkgrin
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