First of all, welcome to the forum.
Secondly, take a deep breath and relax. Try taking life one day at a time and live in the moment. Try not to worry about
what is going to happen and what you are going to do. Take it as it comes, it will help you to relax and the rest will fall into place for you.
I find that worrying about
things just makes you more stressed and nervous. Taking life a little more in stride helps us to just go with the flow of things. It is a lot easier this way. And you will gradually decide what it is that you want to do.
You can lose a good friend by becoming intimately involve. If you are good buddies and you have eachother to trust, really think hard before you try to go any further with the relationship. Remember that this person has a wife. And they must be happy together, even though they are far apart. If it is meant to be, you will know it. Trust your instincts on this one.
I hope that you continue to post, we are here to try to help you. Please familiarize yourself with forum rules. And feel free to post on other threads if you would like.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies