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Date Joined Jul 2009
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   Posted 7/9/2009 5:11 AM (GMT -6)   
I need some help/ advice please

I am a twenty three year old male, my world/heart got broken 7 days ago of by me girl friend of two years that I live with. She broke up with me because she says I was treating her like my mom, she was supporting me in so many ways. I love her and I have given her all my feelings and everything the last 23 months. I go out alot now but whenever I see her since I still live with her I get my heart broken more and more. Because she is acting like nothing is going on. Idk what to do my whole world has came crashing down and idk what to do. It hurts so much that I cry every night because I'm not with her because of what I did. Please help she is the love of my life and I believed we would be together forever. She still says I love you. Idk if that means later we got a chance or what.PLEASE HELP!!

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Date Joined Mar 2009
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   Posted 7/9/2009 6:25 AM (GMT -6)   
hi, i would suggest a little time out to reflect. in the meantime maybe you could have a chat with someone you trust. by giving time you can reflect on what has been said, and by doing so you can clearly say what you need. hey, tough what is happening, sorry for your situation and i hope after a little time out you guys can talk-by this i mean a deep and meaningful. ok. if you rush in fast you may hinder your relationship with her. let her know that you are having a time out. i hope for the best to you both. jamie

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Date Joined Oct 2008
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   Posted 7/9/2009 9:23 AM (GMT -6)   

Saying you love someone and then breaking up, now that is confusing.  Although I am much older than you, I still remember how important relationships are at that age when you first experience love.  I know your heart is breaking and it hurts, but take a deep breath, take one day at a time and try to get through it.  All things happen for a reason, maybe you two just need a break or maybe she is not the right one, who knows.  But if you gave your best to the relationship and it didn't work out, I believe there is a better one for you down the road.  I really can not think of anything right now that would truly make you feel better, but you are not alone.  We all have gone through situations like this.


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Date Joined Apr 2007
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   Posted 7/9/2009 9:54 AM (GMT -6)   

Hello and welcome to HealingWell.  I am sorry you are going through this difficult time.

You posted "since I still live with her " If she has broken up with you, perhaps if one of you moved out or left for a time while you work through this it would be easier then living together like this. Seeing her everyday under these circumstances must be very painful for you and you need time to take care of you.

Talking with the members here, talking with your friends and family or even seeking out some counseling are good ways to help get your feelings out.

I wish you peace,



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