hi ninjaswan. yes we must love ourselves, if your love is true then it is worth informing your partner of your present state. if she loves you then it will nor be an issue, and maybe she will understand your situation better. obviously it may be time to have a chat with your doc also. i am a no reward without risk type of man...albeit i can not assume anything, i never do, yet follow your instincts. thx for having the courage in posting. am sorry you are depressed and feeling down. we are here for you. jamie. male, 37.
dx mdd, severe borderline personality disorder. ps......welcome to the forum.