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   Posted 7/26/2009 3:55 AM (GMT -6)   
guys i am feeling, well...........nothing. maybe too much really. slipt a bit i guess. i stuffed up taking buzzy to the airport, got lost, found irene an hr and 20mins later. she was angry, thus she took the wrong exit, we ended up to far away, 2 more stuff ups on the way home. a bit dumb-founded by my sis, loaned her $ 65 got back $20, she already owes me $ 450 plus, am am not pleased as she is flying to queensland for a 2 wk holiday with her friend. i don't count, plus i am struggling, am going to have to call for food assistance. i lost my tobacco at the airport, this sucks. my mate steve who was supposed to visit 2 wks ago has not shown his face, hmm, i help all but when i need it...........i am just a bloody bank!! sorry, i am feeling very disconnected, very lost in my head. will call to see my g.p. oh well......the lady......i know its not going to work, i suppose i am sad............i invested a real lot and all i got was hatred, discrimination, harrassment and lies, deceit and judgement. i don't know..........what's to know in this world, war, money, stupid war mongering politicians, plastic people..........ghee not good, this is not me.........strange i feel lost. apologies.........sorry, jamie skull skull skull skull

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   Posted 7/26/2009 5:45 AM (GMT -6)   
It will be ok Jamiee. I sometimes feel a bit disconnected myself.

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   Posted 7/26/2009 6:31 AM (GMT -6)   

Jamie id be angry too. people are taking advantage of your good and kind nature and thats unfair. you have every right to be mad, frustrated, confused, upset. when you give SO much of yourself and get so little in return, it really bites.

Hang in there  mate

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   Posted 7/26/2009 11:00 AM (GMT -6)   

Jamie, you are a good person and therefore want to help others.  That is a very good quality.  I do think that you should stop being the loan person for others.  You need to be firm and tell them you cannot afford to give them anymore money because you need to take care of your own needs.  I know this may be hard as you want to help but you come first and you need to be able to handle your expenses and be able to feed yourself.  The others seem to be taking advantage of you.  So please do get up the resolve to turn these people away.  Especially if they are not going to pay you back.  Your sister has no right to ask you for money and then go off on vacation.  Sorry it's not working out with your lady friend.  Sometimes we have to accept that which is not right for us.  Take care.


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   Posted 7/26/2009 11:54 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Jamie,

I agree with Aurora, you are not a bank. Think of you first. You are a wonderful person, and that is the type that get taken advantage of. Don't lend your sister anymore money, she needs to pay you back. And keep track of the extra. It is easy to forget. I knoe that she is family, but often family is the ones that take advantage. So stay firm to your beliefs. You can do this. Take care of you first. It isn't being selfish. It is being human.

Take care my friend,

Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 7/26/2009 8:30 PM (GMT -6)   
thx to you all my friends. yeah, i will stop the flow of $ coming out. i think i may have to inform people that i am not a bank, nor just a conveniance. jamie. a tad better this morning, the disconnection has been at night, thus i will try to focus on something else. jamie.

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   Posted 7/27/2009 3:36 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Jamie,

I agree with the others.....they have given you excellent advice. I know it's hard when you are such a loving and caring person, and you want what is best for everyone, but remember that we are best at giving when we are offering from a full cup. We cannot fully give to others unless we have also given to ourselves. Remember to take care of YOU, okay? We love you and care about you, and hope you are okay. (((hugs)))
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   Posted 7/27/2009 9:32 PM (GMT -6)   
and my love and compassion to you all my dear friends. jamie smilewinkgrin   with thanks.
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