I know that this is so difficult for you. And it may be for a while, at least until after the original wedding date. But once that is over, I think it will be easier for you to go on.
I too agree that maybe you should ask your son not to give you the details and stuff about
the messages. Or even when they come. He will get use to it, or maybe she will stop over time, especially since he doesn't respond to her. She wont be so annoying anymore.
I know that you share a deep feeling for those who are lonely. But this is a choice that she made. And the truth is, now she does have to live with it. But she will go on with life and so will you and your son. Things will be happy again. Everybody just has to go on. And they will, maybe at different times, but it will happen.
I, like Raniah, will try to be at chat tomorrow. I thought that I had to work, but I have a pdoc appointment. But I might be able to make it early. I don't know. I will try. Things keep changing at work and I don't know what is going to happen from one day to the next. My schedule got changed again. So I am lucky when I know if I have to work the next day. I like when I know what is going to happen.
Take care Aurora,
Talk to you again soon.
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