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   Posted 7/29/2009 11:03 AM (GMT -6)   
if your under eighteen do you have to have parental consent to go to counseling.
im from wisconsin.
i only wanna go if i dont have to have consent from them cause i dont wanna tell my parents i think i need it.

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   Posted 7/29/2009 4:26 PM (GMT -6)   
Have you talked to any school counselors? You can call your local mental health or a family doctor to get started. Any of the above should be albe to help you. I don't know what the rules are on that. But I am sure that your doctor or school counselor could help you with this.

What is it that makes you feel that you need counseling? If you are comfortable with telling us, please let us know. And hopefully somebody who knows more about the rules and laws will come along and know about the age thing.

I hope that you have a wonderful day today. Take care,

Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 7/29/2009 8:34 PM (GMT -6)   
The rules vary by state. You can ask the counselor ahead of time whether they need to report all youth appointments and if they only report in certain cases, what those situations would be. In all states, by law, counselors are required to report youth who they believe are a danger to themselves or others, or if someone is a danger to the youth.

I think Karen gave you a good idea about talking to school counselors. I realize though that school is not in session right now. If you are looking for counselors that will work on a free/low-cost basis, you could try searching on the Covenant House website --

I do want to encourage you to talk to your parents, though. I realize that it may seem impossible to talk to parents, but more often than not people find out that their parents really don't make too big of a deal out of it & are supportive. Besides that, they can provide insurance or money for appointments (there are not too many counselors these days who will take patients paying less than full price -- in my experience, first appointments run about $300 & follow-up appointments run $90/30-45 minutes). If your parents are abusive, realize that your counselor would have to report that to the authorities, who may in turn contact your parents. So you may want to address that ahead of time by calling the NineLine (1.800.999.9999) and having them ask the counselor how filing a report would work.

I hope things work out for you. I think it is very wise of you to realize that you need help & to want to get it. :) Keep posting & let us know how we can support you.

Best wishes,
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   Posted 7/30/2009 3:29 AM (GMT -6)   
i am in australia, so it is different here. just wanted to acknowledge your insight in needing and asking for help. i admire your courage. jamie
dx, mdd, severe borderline personality disorder.
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