Jamie & Kitt,
I am so sorry for your losses. I can't imagine anything worse than losing a child. But any loss of a loved one is devastating. It sounds like both of you are doing productive, positive things to cope as well as you can. Focusing on fond memories is truly a good way to remember your loved ones as well as aid you in healing and finding peace.
My love and my heart goes out to both of you.
Diagnosed with: seizure disorder in 1962; seizure-free since 1969, anorexia from 1968-1969; IBS-D in 1996, Mild depression, anxiety, & OCD in 2000, (probably had since childhood);
PMDD in 2001, Dysfunctional tear syndrome in 2009; Meds: Phenobarbitol, Paxil, Allegra; Supplements: Citrucel tablets; many vitamins, minerals & herbs - too many to list here