xela, hi and welcome to the forum. i am jamie, male, 37 and not lazy!!!!!!!!!! it seems that you have boyfriend, by this i mean a boy. he needs to know how you are feelin', and that you need a man in your lfe. at home, playing video games!! you said he is still living at home but is on a good income? sorry don't get that, furthrmore he sems totally set in his ways, and not taking out his gf, s@#$
i see mine whenever i can. different circumstances, i understand that you love him, but girl he isn't reciprocating that back. not fare or right in my book. i am a 50/50 man, sometimes it chops and changes. so does he want a relationship or does he just want to be with you at his beck and call, time to up the ante with him, esp if he is worthy, if not time to find a man that will want to be in a committed relationship. with loving compassion, jamie. sorry for being a tad direct. i just do not like men who disrespect women, and those who are doing so knowing they can get away with it.
dx, mdd, severe borderline personality disorder.