a mate of mine, who finds my place as an outlet, has had me a tad worried today. he lives with OCD. he had 5 showers almost in a row. he asked if he could have one, no probs, but then 4 more ensued. i am worried, not for me, but for him, i did not have the chance because another mate visited, this mate was perturbed at this behaviour, subsequently the first mate left. obviously he felt the indifference from my other mate. i said he lives with OCD, not to worry as i will talk with him. i want to still be compassionate, albeit i want to help also, albeit i also need to express that yes i am his mate but also to express my concerns regarding his behaviour and that he sees my home as his safe haven. my issue is that this is my home and i feel that this situation is enabling him if i do not bring up this situation here. any suggestions will be received with much thanks and compassion.