agree with the doc, and marriage counselling as well. this way you can rectify things more quickly. furthermore this will show your true dedication to the marriage. even if your wife does not attend i recommend that you do, be it psycholoogist/therapist or whoever your comfortable with. your doc may well be able to refer you to someone on a sliding fee scale. seeing your doc will also be beneficial to your mental health as well, meds/treatments and theraputic referal. if you attend m/c it is possible that she wil attend as well. keep strong, by taking care of you you can take care of each other. good luck. jamie
dx, mdd, severe borderline personality disorder.