Constant arguing with boyfriend. Advice, help, please.

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   Posted 10/18/2009 8:41 PM (GMT -6)   
Bless you for reading this: I'm really in a bind.

My bf and I have been together for a while now. We get along so well about 95% of the time. Currently we're in a long distance relationship but it will only be long distance for a few more months.

I can't get him to understand..he just doesn't get it. I know he's a guy, (no offense guys) but sometimes he acts like a really big jerk. I have a big heart for people...I love giving and I don't expect people to give to me. But, sometimes it would be really nice to get a sweet little text or compliment every once in a while from him.
He didn't even talk to me on sweetest day. When i finally called him, we fought.

We're both busy with school and I understand that. But i hate feeling like I'm not a priority. Only problem is I love him too much to let him go. It's not that he's mean, he just doesn't understand anything.

He never hugs me, or rarely kisses me. I have to do it first, then he will. I hate that.

Any advice at all I would so appreciate. I've tried several times talking to him, it goes right in one ear and out the other.

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   Posted 10/18/2009 10:17 PM (GMT -6)   
Express your opinions bluntly to him and let him know your concerns. If he's fully aware of your situation and continues his ingnorance/indifference, you may need to talk an alternative course of action. If it continue to "go in one ear and out the other", show him to the door.
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   Posted 10/18/2009 10:27 PM (GMT -6)   
Sure doesn't sound very romantic. Some men are like that. Maybe his relationship with you isn't top priority on his list. Or maybe he is just not into kissing and stuff. You should talk to him and see where his head is at. Be honest about your feelings.

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