I would like to say hello and am truly sorry for your terrible situation.
You sound like a very intelligent,sensitive and very caring guy and dont ever change that. Im sorry about your brother and hope he is not doing thing's to hard. Also you are very supportive of him as not many people would drive 1 hour to see a person for 15minutes and that show's that your a good person. I also read that you have to put on that happy face,i to have to do this but am at the point where if im not feeling happy im not going to put it on anymore just for the sake of others and i dont think you should have to do this to. Except maybe when you see ur brother as it may upset him and that's hat you dont want i gather.
Also please go and talk to a thearapist to get it all out and maybe some medication would help to?? Please look after YOU!!!! if you dont who will hey. lol. Be good.
colorectal anastamosis 2001.
surgery went horribly wrong,swab left inside,emergency surgery 2001.
total colectomy & ileostomy 2001.
surgical complication's-abcess,more surgery 2001.
more complication's-stitches come apart inside and ended up having more surgery and blood transfusion. 2001.
infection at lap site,another abcess. 2001.
i spent 12mths in Cabrini Private Hospital in Melbourne.
1993 diagnosed with endometriosis,then age 27yrs had radical hysterectomy then 2 mths later lost both ovaries.
2005. bi-lateral mastectomy,heart attack on the table,also contracted MRSA in coronary care unit,had staph for about 12mths. pic line for 6 mths for venus access,for daily antibiotics.
march 2009. op on a parastomal hernia & re-fashioning of stoma. Then complications,huge abcess in small bowel & peritinitus,emergency laparotomy to remove,icu for 5 day's. I think that's enough, no more.
Am taking AVANZA for my depression & ocd!!!!!!!!!!!