It's hard when people you love are depressed.
Whether he will want to talk about
it at all, and how he will react to you bringing it up, depends entirely on him. It's probably impossible for any of us to predecit that, really.
But, while he is your husband, and that means you want to help him be happy, the fact that he is not happy, or that he is depressed IS NOT YOUR FAULT. If you try to help him, in whatever way you know is best based on your relationship, and he refuses, that IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Be sure to take care of yourself. Perhaps, depending on his personality, you could go with him to therapy. But it might help to plant the seed with words like "unhappy" and "someone" instead of "depressed" and "thearapist."
Post Edited (Amherstclane) : 11/19/2009 12:00:11 AM (GMT-7)