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Date Joined Nov 2009
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   Posted 11/16/2009 8:28 PM (GMT -6)   
When i was in highschool i experienced a lot of unfortunate events that i feel really messed me up. I think once i moved away from the place that most of the bad memories were, i felt better. Then i moved to Los Angeles and started modeling which opened up a whole new genre of bad stuff that could happen, and did. I feel like i was doing fine and felt totally balanced, but a few weeks ago my car broke down, and even as small of an issue that is in the grand scheme of things, it broke me down and put me in panic mode. I think i was a ticking time bomb and feeling the way i do now, which reminds me of high school quite a bit, was inevitable.

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   Posted 11/16/2009 10:59 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Evibobevy,

As we get older, the things that happened in the past, mean a lot less to us. They were traumatic at the time, and will seem to be for some time later, but eventually they have not much to do with what is going on in your life. I guess that goes with the saying that time heals all wounds. It does.

But that doesn't mean that it isn't going to effect you now, it can. But try not to let it. Try not to dwell on it, and don't expect you're going to be in the same situation as you were before. Because it doesn't always happen that way. But if you think it is going to, you will find simularities one way or another. Enjoy your life. You sound like a bright lady. Don't let the past bring you down. It is over now. Things are better.

Take care

Hugs, Karen.

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   Posted 11/19/2009 2:52 AM (GMT -6)   
yeah i resenate with that. i have been in similar circumstances. keeping a good current focus is important, as with knowing that our path is ever evolving, circumstance can bring us to think of something that has triggered a memory in our past. but our past is past, our focus is on the here and now, something karen/skitt has instilled in me, took some time, and the future is happening. keep positive, yeah a real battle at times, but be reassured-you will get there. many healings to you. jamie.

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