What am I going to do?

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   Posted 11/16/2009 10:17 PM (GMT -6)   
My wife and kids left me in Aug. Work has been horrible, Im going to lose my house, I dont know what to do. I was seeing a therapist untill I ran out of money.Im on lexapro which seems to work so i can stay focused, things were getting better when some work came around but has stopped again. I was with this person for18 years, and I think the problems are all financial. I quit trying to call her and have moved on. I have been in contact with other women but just cant pull the trigger. Do I just move on or do i try and fix it with my wife? I came home from work and she cleaned me out and I cannot forgive her for that since I supported her for 12 years. Do I sacrifice my self for the kids or do I try and move on? Just feeling low skull skull sad

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   Posted 11/16/2009 11:38 PM (GMT -6)   
Welcome to HealingWell BigDaddi58. I don't know what to say other than I think I would move on if it was me. But I don't know the whole story, there could be factors in there that would make you want to go back to her. That is totally up to you. One day at a time, that is always my motto.

Take care bigdaddi. I hope that we can help you to make some healthy decisions.

Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 11/19/2009 2:42 AM (GMT -6)   
hi biggdaddi. sorry for your situation. if she has cleaned you out then i think she has made her decision. in regards to your kids, meaning you both, then you may want to look at your options. it is not there issue, thus this is something you two need to discuss, regardless if the relationship has ended. hey, depression sucks, thus keep your chin up, sounds like you certainly have tried. i admire courage in posting. hoping for a postive for you. with compassion. jamie.

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