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Date Joined Dec 2009
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   Posted 12/7/2009 3:50 PM (GMT -6)   

Hi all , iv just found and joined this website hoping it'l help me . So starting from the begining ....

I was with this guy , first love and everything ! was only 14 we'd been together 3years when sadly he was in a car crash and died along with a friend , then last year i my grandma & mum both passed away from cancer wasn't as close to my grandma but still heartbroken ! find it really hard to talk about my mum loved her to bits she was everything still wont accept the fact shes gone .... wish i could but i cant ! and then the begining of this year i was still with my ex partner who i have a child with and was involved in domestic violence , he tried to kill me and ended up hitting our son at the same time !
So thats why i joined this website , didnt want to make the post to long , but happy to talk about it all properly .... it'd probably help !

All the best x

Precious Gem
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Date Joined Oct 2008
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   Posted 12/7/2009 4:15 PM (GMT -6)   

That is a very full plate for someone so young.  I am sorry about your loses, they are always hard to accept no matter what stage of life they hit.  Domestic Violence?  I am hoping you are no longer with him and if you are that you are getting counseling, him needing the most along with anger management.  No woman deserves to be beaten or have her life threatened.  Remember to always think highly of yourself and that people treat you the way you allow them to.  Time will heal your wounds and you will always have great memories of your mom.  I wish I did have something very insightfull to say, but all I can think of is to take care of yourself and your child, first and foremost.  Try to better yourself and your situation when you can.

Sending sunshine your way dear................


getting by
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Date Joined Sep 2007
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   Posted 12/7/2009 6:07 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Nomnom,
I am sorry that you are going through so much.  It is tough for anybody to deal with.  Do you go to any counseling?  I think that would really help you right now. 
And Gem is right, you should not live with abuse.  I too hope that you are no longer with this guy.  You and your baby are way to special to have to endure this. 
You have come to a wonderful place.  All of our members are so kind and compassionate.  I am glad that you have joined us.  Keep posting and I hope that you start to feel better soon.  We can help you heal.  And remember things like this take time.  So try to take life one day at a time.  You are very special to us.
Take care,
Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 12/7/2009 8:14 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi nomnom,

Welcome aboard! I hope you find this site as supportive and useful as I have,

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"Bipolar disorder can be a great teacher. It's a challenge, but it can set you up to be able to do almost anything else in your life." - CARRIE FISHER

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