Right where to start my partner and i have just gone through a miscarriage, we have been friends for 17yrs before we got involved i helped her out of depression after an abusive marriage which end a cpl of months before we got together. After the miscarriage i developed symptoms of depression mood swings ect ect my partner seemed unaffected by this apart from being a little irratable but that was normal as far as i can see, we had an argument where she said some awful things and i lost my temper with her and pushed her up a wall and punch through a door. Knowing what I knew was worst possible choice as she had been through it twice before with both her previous ex husbands which I knew. I love her to bits but she has started to have panick attacks and not sleeping and is deep in depressive state she has taken me back but there is no relationship no hugs/touchying/feeling and she says she doesnt know what she wants is the relationship dead??????
I need to understand way she is thinking!!!!
she says does know whether she will ever be able to detach me from what i did do you think we will ever have a romantic relationship????
And should i force her to decide??????
All my freinds recon i should force the issue as its driving me mad not know whether or not we will ever have a loving relationship!!!